Unleash: Embodied Pleasure Retreats

Our embodied pleasure retreats invite you to reclaim pleasure, intimacy, and sensuality as pathways to healing and liberation. Through consent-based practices, embodiment work, and joyful exploration of queer expression, we dissolve shame and cultivate deep self-love and connection – with your own body, with others, and within the community.

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What is an Embodied Pleasure Retreat at QASA?

Our embodied pleasure retreats invite you to reclaim pleasure, intimacy, and embodied expression as powerful tools for growth and liberation. Through consent-based practices, movement, breath, play, and touch, we dissolve shame, lean into pleasure, and awaken the wisdom of the body.

These retreats are not about performance or spectacle. They’re about reconnecting with your sensual aliveness in a safe, supported space where boundaries are honored and queerness is celebrated. Held by skilled facilitators, you’ll explore pleasure as presence, desire as truth, and connection as a radical act of self-love.

Saying Yes to Pleasure in the Body

The Unleash retreat series invites you into queer embodiment, erotic truth, deep connection, and radical self-love – rooted in trauma-informed care, pleasure-centered healing, and consent culture. In these experiences you are invited to explore pleasure in the body as a way home to yourself.

Choose your adventure:

Bodywerk:

For those beginning or returning to embodied touch and erotic presence. Focused on bodywork, massage technique, and conscious connection. Spice: 🌶️

Conscious Kink: 

For those ready to explore the edges of kink, power, and erotic ritual in a safe, playful, shame-free space — reclaiming pleasure as a sacred path to connection with yourself, others, and something greater. Spice: 🌶️🌶️🌶️

Both retreats emphasize consent, co-creation, and the full spectrum of queer sensuality – all held in a container of mutual care, community, and somatic wisdom.

Erotic aliveness as liberation.

The Unleash retreat series invites you into queer embodiment, erotic truth, and radical self-love — rooted in trauma-informed care, pleasure-centered healing, and consent culture. This path isn’t about performance; it’s about presence. Pleasure becomes a way home to yourself.

Choose your level of experience:

  • BODYWORK: For those beginning or returning to embodied touch and erotic presence. Focused on bodywork, massage technique, and conscious connection.
  • Conscious Kink: For experienced seekers ready to explore the sacred edges of kink, power, and erotic ritual in a brave, playful space.

Both retreats emphasize consent, co-creation, and the full spectrum of queer sensuality — all held in a container of mutual care, community, and somatic wisdom.

The Qasa Way

Our unique methodology infused into every Qasa experience.

The Qasa Way is how we create unforgettable, life-shifting queer experiences – grounded in joy, safety, and belonging. While each retreat is unique, you’ll find consistent values, elements, and philosophy across all of our experiences. Every retreat is queer-centered, evidence-rooted, and designed for your whole self: mind, body, heart, spirit, and nature too.

All Qasa experiences center on:

  • Authenticity – We create spaces where you can bring every part of yourself – messy, raw, evolving – without pretense.
  • Connection – Creating space for belonging, not by asking you to fit in, but by welcoming you exactly as you are; through deep listening, shared vulnerability, and the embrace of nature.
  • Queer Joy – We balance soulful, transformative work with celebration, creative expression, and the kind of playful delight that lights you up from the inside out.
  • Embodiment – Embracing practices and moments that drop you into your body, awaken your senses, and root you in the fullness of the present moment.
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How it feels​

Through our retreats, adventures, and festivals, we guide guests from shame, fear, and disconnection to joy, embodiment, and technicolor belonging. You’ll laugh until you cry, cry until you laugh, and remember what it feels like to be fully alive – in your body, in your truth, and in a community that celebrates you exactly as you are.

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Expert
Facilitators:

Skilled, trauma-informed guides create immersive, heart-opening experiences that help you grow with care and clarity.

Inclusive Queer Community:

Join a vibrant, loving community that honors queerness in all its forms - where you are free to be fully, joyfully you.

Exceptional Natural Setting:

Costa Rica’s jungle, ocean, and pura vida spirit offer more than a backdrop - they’re part of the journey.

Holistic
Wellbeing:

Our programs engage the full spectrum of your being - mind, body, heart, and spirit - through rest, play, and connection.

The Arc of Your Qasa Journey

Every Qasa experience is more than just time on the land – it’s a journey with three powerful phases designed to support your transformation.

  1. Preparation – From the moment you say yes, we help you arrive ready – emotionally, physically, and energetically. You’ll receive resources, reflection prompts, and guidance to set intentions so you can step into your retreat with clarity and openness.
  2. Retreat – Immersed in the lush jungles of Costa Rica, you’ll move through a carefully crafted program of practices, rituals, and experiences that guide you from disconnection to connection, from holding back to living in full color.
  3. Integration – Transformation doesn’t end when you leave. We offer tools, practices, and community touchpoints to help you carry your insights, connections, and new ways of being into your everyday life.

At Qasa, we hold the container for your whole journey – before, during, and after – so your experience isn’t just memorable, it’s lasting.

What's on

Upcoming Embodied Pleasure Retreats

Join a bold, joyful, and loving exploration of sexuality beyond shame. Our retreats create safe, affirming spaces for full-body presence, authentic expression, and healing through connection.

With nourishing accommodations, expert guidance, playful embodiment practices, and time to rest or explore the jungle, these retreats offer a deep dive into the sacred art of being fully, sensually alive – in community and in your own body.

 
 
 

Upcoming

An advanced immersion in erotic aliveness, sacred consent, and queer liberation for experienced participants ready to explore the transformative edges of their erotic potential through kink-informed practices.
 
 
 

Upcoming

A sacred journey of erotic embodiment, exploration of giving and receiving healing and sensual touch, and somatic awakening designed for GBTQ+ men seeking to reconnect with their bodies.
 
 
 

Upcoming

An advanced immersion in erotic aliveness, sacred consent, and queer liberation for experienced participants ready to explore the transformative edges of their erotic potential through kink-informed practices.
 
 
 

Upcoming

An advanced immersion in erotic aliveness, sacred consent, and queer liberation for experienced participants ready to explore the transformative edges of their erotic potential through kink-informed practices.
 
 
 

Upcoming

A sacred journey of erotic embodiment, exploration of giving and receiving healing and sensual touch, and somatic awakening designed for GBTQ+ men seeking to reconnect with their bodies.
 
 
 

Upcoming

A sacred journey of erotic embodiment, exploration of giving and receiving healing and sensual touch, and somatic awakening designed for GBTQ+ men seeking to reconnect with their bodies.

Is This for Me?

Embodied Pleasure Retreats are for you if:

You want to explore pleasure, intimacy, and sensuality in a shame-free, consent-based space.

You are curious about how sexuality and embodiment can support healing and self-love.

You have felt disconnected from your desires—or are ready to reclaim them with joy.

You long for queer community that honors boundaries, celebrates bodies, and leads with heart.

You are craving play, depth, and authentic connection—in and beyond the bedroom.

Ready to Rediscover Yourself and Connect with Others?

Secure your spot now and join our inclusive community for an unforgettable retreat experience. Spaces are limited, so don’t miss out on this opportunity to create lasting memories.

What participants say

Kyle Philipp Q.
This trip helped me to ground myself in the beauty of nature, to shed the veil of constant distraction of life, technology. social media and the city and really 100k at myself. The compassionate nature of the facilitators, the community coming together each on their own healing journey and the delicious local food came together perfectly,
Rafael G.
This retreat was one Ot the most transformational oxporioncos thot hod in my ontiro life, If you aro looking to build community, connect with yourself, and tap into your solf worth and power. this experience is for you. Looking forward to the next one already.
John l.
I was going through a rough patch with my mental wen- being and finding those that shared the same desire to better themselves. This experience introduced rne to a healthy gay community of men that were more than their trauma, without judgment or prejudice. I felt liberated, free, loved ond heard. There were so many beautitul souls here that shared their stories with me. I found that the key was to take a leap Of faith and come with on open heart and
Dale D.
I'm so glad I attended Remembering Wholeness- The food. the shelters. the facilities, the movement, the ceremonies, and the natural environment were worthy Of accolades_ Mostly, basked in the cornpany Of other queer men. all of us sharing our joy and spirit with each other. 1 highly recommend the retreat and stays offered by the Queer wellness Collective.

Our Retreat Amenities include

Luxurious accommodations, holistic wellness facilities, adventure opportunities, and an experienced team for an unforgettable experience.

Spectacular waterfalls

  • Enjoy six major waterfalls within walking distance along the Diamante River.
  • 11 Gorgeous Bamboo Cabins (25 beds sleeping up to 28)

  • 3 Deluxe Cabins (1 king/queen bed)
  • 5 Jungle Cabins (1 king bed or 2 individual beds)
  • 3 Bunk Cabins (4 individual beds)
  • All cabins include power, lights, fan, super comfortable beds and nice linens, and are fully enclosed in mosquito mesh netting. A/C is unnecessary in our region.

    Camping area

  • able to accommodate 10-20 people
  • Beautiful yoga shala

  • Our shala space is a beautiful covered bamboo structure reaching out into the jungle with a direct view of the Diamante waterfall.
  • Communal bathroom and showers

  • All cabins share a beautiful bamboo bathhouse with hot water
  • Communal 5 person outdoor shower
  • 3 private individual showers
  • Kitchen + dining to accommodate 30+

  • Gourmet meal plan available
  • Gym

  • Comprehensive collection of free weights (machines and cardio not available).
  • Pristine Nature

  • Located on a gorgeous 300-acre property in one of the world’s most biodiverse places in Costa Rica.
  • Abundant hiking

  • Explore several kilometers of private hiking trails right on the property.
  • On-site bodywork

  • Care for your body with a massage or energy work complimented by relaxing sounds of nature (additional cost).
  • Massages offered in your cabin or in our outdoor massage temple.
  • Accommodations include

    All cabins are handmade primarily from locally-sourced bamboo, and while they are protected from the elements and enclosed in mosquito netting, they are open air and have spectacular views of the jungle. Private and shared accommodation options are available.

    All cabins come with:

    All cabins share a gorgeous bamboo bathhouse and shower facilities.
    A/C is unnecessary in our region.

    Price includes accommodation, use of facilities, and morning embodiment classes (such as yoga, meditation, etc) offered several days per week.
    This price does not include the cost of meals ($50/person/night).

    PRIVATE
    DELUXE CABIN

    A beautiful, hand-crafted bamboo cabin with a queen or king bed.

    SHARED 4 BED JUNGLE CABIN

    A shared cabin with four comfortable single beds. You will have one single bed to yourself, and you will be matched with three other participants who will sleep in the other beds. 

    KING JUNGLE CABIN

    A beautiful, hand-crafted bamboo cabin with a queen or king bed. 

    SHARED TWIN JUNGLE CABIN

    A shared cabin with two comfortable twin-size beds. You will have one bed to yourself, and you will be matched with another participant who will sleep in the other twin bed.

    All cabins come with:

    All cabins share a gorgeous bamboo bathhouse and shower facilities.
A/C is unnecessary in our region.

    Price includes accommodation, use of facilities, and morning embodiment classes (such as yoga, meditation, etc) offered several days per week.
This price does not include the cost of meals ($50/person/night).

    Meals include

    We have an in-house chef who prepares fresh and delicious meals daily, using local, organically grown ingredients whenever possible. We will do our best to accommodate dietary restrictions.

    Vegan

    Vegetarian

    Pescetarian

    Includes Meat

    Organic

    Gluten Free

    Dairy Free

    Nut Free

    Affiliated Retreats

    We are committed to showcasing individuals and programs that support the LGBTQ community. Please note, however, that these are not official QASA initiatives and may not necessarily align with our values, beliefs, or practices.
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    Got questions about our retreats in Costa Rica? Read the FAQs or get in touch via the contact form below.

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    Qasa is a queer sanctuary nestled in the lush Costa Rican jungle. We are a hotel and retreat center offering a mix of transformative experiences, playful freedom, embodied pleasure, wellness, and connection — all centered around the LGBTQ+ community. Whether you’re coming for a retreat, a hotel stay, or an event, we welcome you with open arms (and optional clothes).

    While our retreats are predominantly for GBTQ+ men, our hotel welcomes all guests who value conscious community, natural beauty, and authentic connection – regardless of background, identity, or how you love.

    Qasa offers an eco-chic boutique hotel and transformational experiences, including sacred plant journeys, nature-based adventures and embodied pleasure retreats. We also offer intentional gatherings, parties, and festivals, as well as daily world-class classes, workshops, and events.

    Yes! You can stay with us as a hotel guest during “off-retreat” times. It’s a beautiful way to enjoy nature, community, and rest. Check availability here.

    Key community agreements include respect, radical self-expression, inclusivity and non-judgment, clothing-optional, consent, sex positivity, intentionality, responsible use of consciousness-altering substances, clear communication, and co-creation.

    Absolutely. We celebrate body freedom and comfort. Nudity is welcome in common areas, and respected as a non-sexual form of self-expression. Please always sit on a towel 🙂

    Yes. We are an adults-only space (18+). Our programming and environment are not suitable for children.

    Yes, Costa Rica has a good track record in terms of safety, and its growing social acceptance of the LGBTQ+ community makes it a relatively safe destination.

     

    In Costa Rica, personal participation in sacred plant ceremonies for spiritual growth is not penalized under current law, with enforcement focused on trafficking rather than individual practice. While the landscape remains unregulated and evolving, ceremonies conducted in genuine spiritual contexts may benefit from constitutional protections; we honor these traditions with full respect for Costa Rican law and culture.

    Getting to QASA

    • Qasa is located 3.5-4.5 hours from San Jose International airport (SJO), and roughly 1.25 hours from Quepos Airport (XQP) which has regular flights from SJO on Sansa Airlines and Green Airways
    • After booking a stay at Qasa we will be happy to help you book a private taxi through a trusted provider. Private taxi rates (subject to change) are approximately:
      • $180 from San Jose or SJO Airport
      • $80 from Quepos or XQP Airport
      • $90 from Manuel Antonio
      • $30 from Dominical
      • $30 from San Isidro
    • If renting a car, a 4×4 is required to access the hotel in the rainy season
    • The most economical option to arrive is to take a public bus to San Isidro or Dominical and then take a private taxi
    Flexible Stays/Experiences

    Hotel Stays in Costa Rica

    Indulge in pure relaxation at our serene retreat. Just stay and enjoy the hotel, where every moment is designed for your comfort. Unwind in stylish accommodations, savor delectable cuisine, and relish in the tranquil atmosphere. Your escape begins here.