Turned On: A Queer Wellbeing Summit

The world’s leading voices in wellbeing for GBTQ+ men. Two days. One question: what does it look like to burn your brightest?

December 02–03, 2026 · Virtual · Attend from anywhere

AS SEEN ON

So What Do We Mean By Wellbeing?

Wellness takes care of the body. Wellbeing takes care of the whole person – your mind, your body, your relationships, your sexuality, your sense of purpose, your joy. The parts of you that a massage can’t reach and a green juice can’t fix.

All of it, together, as one very queer, living system.

Not a detox. Not a diagnosis. Queer wellbeing is what’s left when you stop performing and start burning bright.

See Qasa for Yourself

Step into the land, the spaces, and the feeling of a Qasa retreat. Throughout the year, we host Sacred Plant Journeys, Embodied Pleasure retreats, and Out & Wild Nature Adventures – each held with care, choice, and experienced facilitation.

Retreats are offered on confirmed dates throughout the year. Hotel stays may also be available on select dates outside retreat periods.

John L

This experience introduced me to a community of men who were more than their trauma. I felt liberated, loved, and heard.

The Question

What does it feel like to be fully turned on to your own life?

Lit up. Unedited. Burning your brightest – not the rehearsed version you’ve learned to offer the world.

Authentic

Authentic in who you actually are - nothing edited, nothing hidden.

Embodied

Embodied in the life you actually feel - present, alive, at home in your body.

Connected

Connected with the genuine belonging we all need - not striving to fit in.

Every participant completes an eligibility and screening process after registering. If Qasa determines that the retreat is not the right fit, the deposit is fully refunded.

Who This Is For

You’re not here because something is wrong with you.

You’re here because you’ve tasted what it feels like to be fully yourself – and you want more of it. More aliveness. More passion. More truth. More belonging that doesn’t cost you anything to enter.

This summit is for queer people who are ready to burn their brightest.

What You’ll Experience

Two days of programming that go all the way in.

Keynotes

The leading voices in queer wellbeing, psychology, embodiment, spirituality, and culture. Seekers on their own paths - who continue to do their own work and show up with experience, curiosity, and humility.

Workshops

Embodied, immersive, practical experiences that get you out of your head and into your body. Tools and practices that you’ll actually use - not inspiration that evaporates.

Honest Conversations

The conversations that don't usually make it onto a conference agenda. No panels where everyone agrees. Honest, alive conversations about identity, sexuality, relationships, joy, and what it actually takes to show up as yourself.

Community

Something shifts when queer people stop performing and start connecting. The people in this room are asking the same questions you are. Feel the difference. Find your people.

Three Themes. One Journey.

Each Qasa retreat offers a different doorway into connection, embodiment, nature, and queer joy.

Authenticity

What it means to wake up to your most authentic self  and start burning bright.

There’s a version of you that’s fully lit up  unedited, unfiltered. Most of us have felt it in glimpses. This track is about living there, not just visiting. The creativity, the courage, the particular electricity that moves through a room when queer people stop performing and show up whole.

Embodiment

What it means to get out of your head and into the aliveness of your body.

Most of us live from the neck up. Planning, analyzing, figuring it out, staying one step ahead. This track is about what happens when you drop in – joy, movement, sexuality, somatics, spirituality, plant medicine, transformation. The body is where life is actually happening. Come feel it.

Belonging

What it means to find belonging through connection, not conformity.

Most of us have spent years earning our place in rooms that required us to leave pieces of ourselves at the door. The cost of that is real. This track is about what happens when we stop trying to fit in, and what becomes possible when belonging doesn’t require conformity – chosen family, modern queer relationships, and community that lets you arrive whole.

What Will You Walk Away With?

You won’t leave with a certificate or a 10-step plan.

You’ll leave turned on – to yourself, your body, and your people.

With practices and tools that actually landed.

Conversations that stayed with you.

Connections that feel like they were always supposed to happen.

Why This Summit Exists

There are summits for business. Leadership. Personal Growth. Mental health. Spirituality.

And you’ve probably been to some of them – the only queer person in the room, quietly translating everything through a lens nobody else was using.

None of them ask the question that lives underneath all of it for us:

What does it actually feel like to be a queer person fully turned on to my own life?

Turned On is built around that question. Not as an answer – as a gathering. A room where the conversation finally happens at scale, with the people already doing the work.

What Our Community Is Saying

Our virtual summit will be attended by existing and new community members. Here’s what some of them have to say about Qasa.

The Voices Shaping It

Therapists. Coaches. Guides. Researchers. Authors. Creators. Community builders. You. And brilliant souls on their own path.

The people already redefining what queer wellbeing can look like — in one place, for two days.

Shelby

Shelby Clark (he/him) is a certified yoga instructor, trained meditation guide, and somatic facilitator focused on helping queer people unlearn performance and return to authenticity.

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Marcos

Marcos brings three decades of teaching to the mat. His path runs from the vigor of Ashtanga through the energy work of Tantra and into Ayurveda.

Mike peck

Mike is a Conscious Embodiment Coach based in London, dedicated to supporting others through modalities such as Tension & Trauma Release Exercises (TRE®), Yoga, Classical and Neo-Tantra, Breathwork, Meditation, and Somatic Movement Therapy.

Axel Watts

Axel Watts is a yoga teacher, movement educator, retreat leader, and community builder with over a decade of experience helping people reconnect with themselves through movement, mindfulness, and shared experience

John Jacob

A facilitator whose approach brings together sacred traditions, breath, psychology, embodiment, and personal development.

Gil bar Sela

A facilitator whose approach brings together sacred traditions, breath, psychology, embodiment, and personal development.

Rafa Gondim

Rafa is responsible for providing leadership across QASA’s retreat and event portfolio – advancing program excellence, building strategic partnerships, and facilitating sacred plant journey retreats.

alex Sloan

A facilitator, coach, and longtime explorer of queer sexuality, pleasure, kink, and embodiment. He is the creator and lead facilitator of Conscious Kink at Qasa and the founder of the Queer Sovereignty Method

Radha Agrawal

Co-founder and investor of several wellness companies. Named by MTV as a woman who will change the world, she’s a recognized leader in innovative community-building

Kaelan Strouse

Author, spiritual guide, and keeper of thresholds. Shaped by seven years in a meditative ashram and decades of devotional practice, he founded Ecstatic Self and has written three books on the ecstatic path.

Blake Mycoskie

Blake Mycoskie is the founder of TOMS Shoes and the One for One movement. After his own journey through depression, he now helps others remember their worth through ENOUGH and his podcast, No Magic Pill.

Justin Michael Williams

Best-selling author, transformational speaker, and Grammy-nominated recording artist. His work brings together music, meditation, and equality to help people who don’t usually see themselves in wellness rise together.

Dan Link

Lead Adventure Facilitator

Dan is a biologist, survivalist, and six-time Naked and Afraid champion who brings deep knowledge of the natural world, practical wilderness skills, humor, and steady guidance to Out & Wild.

What’s Included

Live access to every session, Session recordings, Bonus workshops, Community discussions, Retreat offers, and exclusive discounts

Event Details

Flexible Stays

December 02–03, 2026
Virtual
Attend from anywhere in the world live and on-demand.

All Access Pass: Free

What’s Included:

Live access to every session, session recordings, bonus workshops, community discussions, retreat offers, and exclusive discounts.

About Qasa

Qasa — inspired by casa, the Spanish word for home — is a GBTQ+ focused retreat center and sanctuary in the Diamante Valley of Costa Rica. A place for queer men to come home to themselves.

At the heart of everything we do is a simple mantra: As I am, in this body, I belong.

Not as an aspiration. As a felt experience. We’ve witnessed it happen again and again with the 1,000+ queer men who have joined us in the jungle — dropping the weight of everything they’ve been managing, and remembering what it feels like to be fully themselves. Authentic. Embodied. Connected.

Our retreats — Awaken, Unleash, and Explore — are built around that experience. The Summit is that work at scale. Because not everyone can make it to Costa Rica.

Connect With Us

We’re excited to meet you and answer any questions you may have. Please choose your preferred communication channel below.

Getting to Qasa

Qasa is located near Dominical, Costa Rica, approximately 3.5-4.5 hours from San José International Airport. Scheduled ground transportation is included for retreat participants at specified arrival and departure times.

From San José

Join the scheduled retreat transfer or arrange private ground transportation.

From Quepos

Take a short domestic flight from San José, followed by ground transportation to Qasa.

Driving

A 4WD vehicle is recommended and may be required during the rainy season.

Apply Here

We review every application. Take the time to book a call with our team and provide your contact info. This allows us to get to know you better, answer your questions and guide you through the booking process.


frequently asked questions

FAQs

Got questions about our retreats in Costa Rica? Read the FAQs or get in touch via the contact form below.

Need more insights? Read our comprehensive blog about all things retreat-related in Costa Rica.

Qasa offers three retreat series for gay and queer men: Awaken Sacred Plant Journeys, Unleash Embodied Pleasure Retreats, and Out & Wild nature adventures. Each series includes different paths, facilitators, activities, and confirmed dates throughout the year.

Each retreat has its own focus, but Qasa experiences generally combine guided programming, queer-centered community, nature, shared meals, rest, preparation, and integration. Individual date pages explain the practices, schedule, facilitators, accommodations, and participation expectations for that experience.

Open the retreat date that fits you, review the details, choose an available room, and pay the required deposit. You then complete the eligibility form and screening process before your participation is confirmed.

After paying the deposit, you complete the required eligibility and screening steps. If Qasa determines that the retreat is not the right fit, your deposit is fully refunded. If approved, you receive confirmation, payment information, and preparation guidance.

Yes. You can book a free discovery call to compare retreat paths, dates, facilitators, prices, and room options. Booking a call does not reserve a retreat or require you to register.

Qasa retreats are primarily created for gay, bisexual, trans, and other queer men who feel aligned with a men-centered experience. Each retreat page explains its audience, environment, privacy, and participation expectations in more detail.

Qasa generally hosts retreats throughout most of the year, often with one or more experiences available each month. The retreat schedule is usually quieter from August through October, when flexible hotel stays may still be available.

Yes. On select dates outside retreat periods, Qasa welcomes hotel guests of all identities. You can visit alone, with a partner, or with friends and enjoy the property, accommodations, nature, meals, and available activities.

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Shelby Clark

Founder

Shelby Clark (he/him) is a certified yoga instructor, trained meditation guide, and somatic facilitator focused on helping queer people unlearn performance and return to authenticity. As the founder of Qasa – an LGBTQ+ retreat center in Costa Rica – Shelby creates spaces where queer people can reconnect with their bodies, their truth, and a felt sense of belonging.

His approach draws from somatic practice, meditation lineages (including training with Radiance Sutras author Lorin Roche), and the transformative power of queer joy. Shelby’s work lives in the body – in sensation, emotion, pleasure, and flow. With a mix of reverence and a sense of play, Shelby supports others in exploring the full spectrum of sensation, emotion, pleasure, and presence – not to become someone new, but to remember who they already are.

Shelby lives in Costa Rica, and feels most alive dancing in the jungle, laughing with community, and helping others land in their own aliveness.

Mike Peck

Mike is a Conscious Embodiment Coach based in London, dedicated to supporting others through modalities such as Tension & Trauma Release Exercises (TRE®), Yoga, Classical and Neo-Tantra, Breathwork, Meditation, and Somatic Movement Therapy. With over 850 hours of training, he works closely with his clients and community to understand their needs, offering a safe, attuned space for movement, play, connection, healing and transformation.

Known for his grounding presence and deep intuition, Mike skilfully weaves together multiple practices to help people experience greater inner peace, freedom, and empowerment. His retreats, workshops and sessions are described as powerful, nurturing, and insightful-held with professionalism, empathy, and a commitment to helping others shine and thrive.

Axel Watts

Axel Watts is a yoga teacher, movement educator, and wellness leader with over a decade of experience exploring the intersection of movement, mindfulness, and human connection. With a background in strength and conditioning, studio leadership, and retreat facilitation, Axel brings a playful curiosity to everything they do. Their work is rooted in creating spaces where people feel seen, supported, and encouraged to peel back the layers, explore a little deeper, and discover what’s possible both on and off the mat.

John Jacob Mubarak

John Jacob Mubarak is a passionate advocate for holistic healing and integrates the power of sacred plants, breathwork, psychology, philosophy, science and ancient wisdom teachings into his retreats to guide individuals towards profound personal and professional growth.

With a background as an Agape Licensed Spiritual Therapist, Elemental Rhythm Breathwork Facilitator, and Teacher in Residence at the Rythmia Life Advancement Center in Costa Rica, John is dedicated to sharing the Sacred Truth Principles of Acceptance, Joy & Oneness. Through his retreats, breathwork sessions, teachings, and private healing sessions, he empowers participants to unlock their Infinite potential and discover their interconnectedness with the Divine.

John Jacob’s passion and dedication to the study of sacred plants of Central and South America have propelled him on a profound journey of healing and transformation. For the last six years, he worked with thousands of clients helping them to integrate their powerful experiences with sacred plants. As a specialist in sacred plant integration, John skillfully combines ancient wisdom with modern techniques, such as somatic intelligence, diaphragmatic breathing and psychology, to help individuals anchor their experiences and translate them into life-changing shifts in consciousness and profound transformations in their everyday lives.

John leads workshops and retreats that catalyze individual transformation, fostering a harmonious world that thrives for the highest good of all.

http://www.sacred-truth.com/ 

Gil Bar-Sela

Gil Bar-Sela is a medicine guide, facilitator, and trainer working with individuals, couples and groups. He trains and supervises medicine guides through his experiential 1-year Psychedelic Guide Training, Essential Medicine.

Gil brings 15 years of facilitation experience. He was initiated into the art of medicine healing by serving as an apprentice to a medicine woman whose lineage originated from Maria Sabina, the Mexican shaman who introduced mushroom ceremonies to the west. He spent 2 years alongside her learning and practicing the ways of the medicines.

His uniquely wholistic approach merges the ancient wisdom of ceremony with western style modalities, weaving in modalities such as Internal Family Systems, trauma-informed work, somatics, Compassionate Inquiry (Gabore Mate), Core Energetics, archetypal work, eco-psychology and shamanic practices.

Alex Sloan

Alex Sloan founded Queer Sovereignty Method™, helping queer men build the capacity for deeper connection, pleasure, and personal freedom. He created and facilitates Conscious Kink at Qasa Retreat Center in Costa Rica, an experiential exploration of desire, power, consent, and vulnerability. Informed by decades in kink communities, Alex’s work invites men to discover greater authenticity in how they connect, desire, and express themselves.

Radha Agrawal

Radha Agrawal is a dynamic entrepreneur, Co-founder, CEO, and Chief Community Architect of Daybreaker, a global wellness movement with nearly half a million members across five continents.

She’s co-founded and invested in several wellness companies, including THINX, and launched DOSE by Daybreaker, a membership platform focused on 
practicing joy.

Agrawal toured with Oprah and WW, leading motivational sessions for over 155,000 attendees.
Her book Belong reveals her strategies for building meaningful communities without ad spend, aiming to help others find connection. Named by MTV as a woman who will change the world, she’s a recognized leader in innovative community-building.

Kaelan Strouse

Kaelan Strouse is an author, spiritual guide, and keeper of thresholds—the places where body and spirit, longing and belonging, self and soul meet.

His path runs through seven years in a meditative ashram, decades of devotional practice, and training across yogic and energetic traditions. Since 2020, his platform, Ecstatic Self, has supported thousands through private mentorship, retreats, workshops, and ceremonial gatherings.

Kaelan has worked with federal judges, CEOs, creatives, healers, and those navigating profound life transitions. They come for a rare combination of fierce authenticity, deep humility, and the conviction that nothing essential about them needs to be fixed.

He is the author of Journey to the Ecstatic Self, I Dreamt of Flight, and 48 Gateways to the Ecstatic Self. His fourth book, Ecstaticism: A Transmission from the Threshold, will be published by Sibling Rivalry Press in March 2027.

Kaelan lives in Washington, D.C. with his husband, their beloved rescue dogs, one exceptionally opinionated cat, and too many houseplants.

Blake Mycoskie

Blake Mycoskie is a lifelong seeker and entrepreneur, best known as the founder of TOMS Shoes. TOMS pioneered the One for One model, giving a pair of shoes to a child in need for every pair sold. That idea inspired a generation of conscious consumers and changed how companies think about giving back.

Beyond TOMS, Blake has launched five other businesses. He is also the author of the New York Times bestseller Start Something That Matters, which calls on entrepreneurs to align profit with purpose.

From the outside, his life looked like a success story. Inside, he was struggling. After selling TOMS, the emptiness grew, leading him into the darkest period of his life. Healing meant giving up the search for a quick fix and doing the slow, honest work of coming home to himself. Along the way, he learned the truth that changed everything: I am enough.

That realization became ENOUGH, his new venture helping people remember their own worth. It also inspired his podcast, No Magic Pill, an honest look at mental health and what it really takes to heal. Blake has shared his story on the TED stage and on CBS Mornings. He is also a portrait photographer, a dad, and a self-described grateful human and lover of life.

Justin Michael Williams

Justin Michael Williams is a best-selling author, transformational speaker, and Grammy-nominated recording artist working where music, meditation, and equality meet. He knows he doesn’t fit the traditional mold of a transformational teacher, and that’s the point. He is here for everyone who has never seen themselves reflected in the wellness world, and for a generation ready for change.

With nearly twenty years of teaching experience and an audience in more than 40 countries, Justin has spoken at Google, Bloomberg, and SXSW. He brings a joyful, high-energy presence to every stage, with one goal: giving people of every background the tools to transform their own lives and the world around them.

Music is his first love, and he weaves it into his teaching so that a song becomes something you feel and grow through. His first book, Stay Woke, brought mindfulness to young people across America and won a Next Generation Award. His latest, How We Ended Racism, co-written with Shelly Tygielski, imagines the end of racism by looking back from the year 2050. His work has been endorsed by Arianna Huffington, Jon Kabat-Zinn, Sharon Salzberg, and Martin Luther King III, among others.

Dan Link

Dan Link is an internationally renowned biologist, adventurer, queer rights advocate, and primitive survivalist who brings a unique perspective to the outdoors. Growing up as a self-proclaimed ‘weird kid’ in a small town in Upstate New York, Dan discovered his passion for nature early in life. His love for the outdoors led him to a career as a dedicated biologist for Hawai’i’s remote Papahanaumokuakea Marine National Monument, where he combines conservation with adventure and strives to protect ecosystems worldwide.

Dan’s outdoor expertise has been showcased in five successful primitive survival challenges on Discovery Channel’s Naked and Afraid franchise, culminating in his recent victory on Naked and Afraid competition spinoff ‘Last One Standing’. These achievements highlight his remarkable mental resilience, advanced outdoor skills, knack for adventure, and unmatched recognition as a skilled gay survivalist. As a fierce advocate for diversity and inclusion, his visibility in a traditionally rugged and heteronormative space such as wilderness survival has made him an influential figure for LGBTQ+ representation in outdoor and adventure communities.

Dan’s work is committed to pushing boundaries and breaking societal norms while fostering personal growth and promoting diversity and authenticity in outdoor spaces. His journey aims to inspire others to push their limits and explore the transformative power of connecting with nature.