Problem for most gay men isn’t “having” intimacy

The problem for most gay men isn’t “having” intimacy. It’s how little they’re actually feeling during it. Not because something is wrong. But because most of us learned to manage intimacy before we ever learned to feel it.

Celebrate Pride with gay men in the Jungle

This year, we’re inviting you to experience Pride differently: in the jungle, with conscious gay men, surrounded by nature, music, movement, and connection that goes beyond the dance floor. Pride didn’t begin as just another party. It began as a refusal to keep hiding. A collective moment of queer people saying: we are here, we […]

Gay Men Are Bad at Being Touched

Not because we’re broken. Because no one ever taught us what safe, nourishing touch actually feels like – and the body never forgot that it’s still waiting. Think about what you were taught. We learn how to perform. How to be desirable. How to give attention and receive it on cue. We learn how to […]

Why Being “Okay” Isn’t Enough: A Path to Authenticity for Gay Men

The “Fine” Trap: Why We Learned to Hide Gay men are exceptionally good at being okay. We learned it early: Smile at the right moments. Hold it together in public. Process the pain later—or don’t, and just keep moving. Many of us have “done the work.” We’ve gone to therapy, practiced breathwork, read the books, […]

Why do so many of us feel empty after a hookup?

Looking for a taste of the Jungle Gayborhood magic without staying overnight? Our Day Pass is your invitation to roam, relax, and revel in the natural beauty and playful community that makes this place so special. Whether you’re a local or a traveler, the Day Pass offers the perfect opportunity to immerse yourself in the […]

Welcome Home – The Jungle Gayborhood is now Qasa

Jungle family, When we first opened as the Jungle Gayborhood, our dream was simple: create a space in the Costa Rican jungle where queer souls could gather, heal, play, and remember the joy of belonging. Over time, that dream has grown even more wild and radiant – and it’s time for our name to grow […]